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Matrimonial — Where are they heading?

I am 24, male, looking for my better half. Do I really need to book myself on Shaadi, Indian Matrimonial or need to give advertisement in newspaper and look for girls who are “Convent Educated” or should go to a TV show (talking about star vivah, recently started on Star TV)?

Let me clerify one thing first that I am not so desperate to get married that I am writing this on my blog. I just want to express my views on the system we are following to get married. After even 10 years of being social, I still do not understand the concept of arrange marriage. There is no single marriage in my knowledge which is fixed via website, tv show, matrimonial ads or something like that, is 100% success. Well clearly speaking, only 10% of the marriages which I have seen till date or you can say 10% of married couples, living happily.

Getting married is one of the most happy moments I can think of, in a girl’s or boy’s life. Getting married to a right person is a real time hard to find thing. Sometimes, when I feel bored on Sundays, I look into Matrimonial sections of newspapers for jokes! Confused? Yes, I look for Matrimonial for jokes. The ads there are nothing better than PJ’s. If you look at them you will find that the people who get married in this world are neither beautiful, nor from good family, nor highly educated, nor earning good because all such people find their partners from MATRIMONIAL. I do not understand of writing “Convent Educated” in the qualification. Does this make difference? Do they look like “Avtars”? The main thing in education is the institute and the backbone behind you. If the girl is so called “Convent Educated” and can not respect the family members, whats the use of such education then?

I think getting married to the right person is as important as breathing. Few things which are important as per my thoughts should be:

1. Nature.
2. Understanding.
3. Knowledge of needs and medical conditions.
4. Importance of being together.
5. Love between the partners.
6. Guts to say sorry. Yes, it should be there in both the partners.

Rest there can be a long list of do’s and dont’s which I do not think, I have write to say at this moment hehe. :)

Look forward, think twice before going for such things. Beware of frauds and try to look for the best option for you. Life is not for spoiling with your own bare hands. ENJOY :)

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Welcome June!

Last month went a bit hazy, creepy and full of stupid issues, either financial or family or with clients. It was like I need to run from here, go to somewhere where I can not be found. Felt too sad and lonely for many days and almost had a emotional breakdown but HEY! I am back with the new month haha.

How can I feel so bad for so long huh? Anurag is a freak and will remain one till he dies. The only best thing happened last month is the increase in the bond between me and my Lord. I am feeling more near to God. I know sometimes is become really hard to manage and at that time I do not find even a single person to share my feelings with. Everyone is so stuck in their life that telling them about my problems seem really awkward to me.

The more I go ahead in life, the more I realize that life is way more hard then I thought of in the last month. There were I think 4 clients who acted like most irritating personalities in my whole life and almost got my nerves. Three of them got their answers but the last one will get a big time kick on his butts for sure. Can you imagine people happily give money to Godaddy and other companies in US but they want the Indian to work for free and feel getting “work for free” is their birth right! Moreover they think they can stop the payments from my other clients whom they are in contact of! Haha dream on! These cheap guys don’t know how nasty I can be and what I can do with them. Foul language and irritating messages do not boil me much as I know if I throw stone on mud the person who will get affected is me.The much needed lesson for such people is in pipeline and they will understand pretty sure that if a person is quite that means he is getting ready for the biggest attack on them which they can not even think of.

Anyway, life and business has such things. The most required thing for me is to leave the “Punjabi” anger far behind and let the dogs bark as the more they bark the more they will ruin their reputation. If I have the right to speak I also have the right to be silent on some situations.

Last month also got some good news for me! I became pretty sure that …. na leave this thing haha. Some other time. I am changing the topic lolz.

I am planning to go for some tours this month. Next month full Solar eclipse photography is in pipeline and I am still worried about the equipment I will need. I do not know if my baby (talking about my cam) can handle such situation. Anyway, for that I still have much time to thing as confusion still persists for the location. I am still like “Idhar jaaun ke udhar jaaun“.

Rest I am feeling adventourous these days as I do not know what I am going to face this month hehe. Lets see and hope for the best and hey! I am always prepared for the worst to come ;)

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May 17, 2009

What If

What if I did not bother what you meant to me or what if I just walked away when you came into my life. I am still feeling too bad because I am hurt. I am hurt because I cared and you just went off. I was not asking for the return favor but I was asking for the accessibility to the charm of being around you which I do not think I will get.

Every single broken piece of my heart is still yelling that I am wrong. You must be in some problem and that is the only reason you had such kind of harsh words for me. May be I believe they are harsh and they might not be. I do not understand why I still behave like an innocent child who just want to be loved though I know the phase of being innocent and of child has gone. It was my mistake (I think) to believe that I can think of you in my life.

After my past experience with friends and love, it was hard to make myself ready to get into any kind of true friendship or something like that but you made me think that it was not an end of my emotions but it was just a  break. I started the day with you and ended it with a note of thanks. I always tried that I should not become nuisance for you though I made myself so many a times in such a short spam of time of our friendship.

But still I believed that you understand the reason I was talking to you. You understand the situations I am facing and will be a little support by just replying to me. But in all this, I messed up with me and with you. I asked you many a times if I am the reason of bad mood and you refused to agree with me on that but now I feel somewhere it was my mistake to have so much faith in myself that I can be a good friend and can get a sweet friend like you.

I do not think I have enough courage to say anything to you and this is the only reason I am writing all this here. I do not think I will be able to express my feelings to you anymore on net or face to face which I really wanted to someday. I will count every drop fell for you and I will remain silent till I do not find either a way to say sorry or a way to express myself in front of you.

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May 16, 2009

Frustrated!

Life sometimes bring a point in life when you become more and more frustrated by the things you have done and others are doing with you. Your whole life is full of friends and some very close to your heart, so close that others can not fill or occupy that space. When these friends start talking in a way that hurts you, is the worst phase of life.

I have crossed 24 years of my life and now moving to 25. If I calculate in next 3 and half months approximately. What I have learned in such a long period of time is, if you care for someone you are a big time jerk. Friends normally do not make you feel bad but on some stage they just do not want you to disturb them because YOU CARE. Because you show care and love which you think they deserve, which you think you have right to show especially to those friends which are “the close one” to your heart.

In my life I came across many people and had quite good relations with some of them. So good that I was there for them in any time of the day but whats the result? I always prove myself a stupid piece of junk who is totally unwanted. I don’t understand after being so caring for friends, in end, why I prove myself to be the same as old an then repeat the thing again!

Every year, every time I am proved to be the most stupid person only because I care for you my friend. Life is so short and loving someone is a beautiful feeling. The feeling which is awaited in everyone’s life and when it comes it can make you the happiest person in life. The feeling can be for a lover or a friend (but a closer one). When you love her so much that you get tense when she is tense the climax comes and then…. you are again on the floor to collect the pieces of your heart because the person have so many friends other than you and closer than you.

Thank you again my friend! For teaching me the same which everyone tried to teach me. But I will not stop admiring you and adoring you for being in my life. Someday I know, you will feel that I was the one who tried to make you happy. I may not be the good looking, charming or have so cool nature to match with your “close friends” but I am not that bad also.

For you, I am here but will not message you or buzz you again even if I find you in a bad mood or you are mad about something. I am leaving you on your own and will wait for the time when I think I can buzz you or disturb you for something or you think the same to disturb me (though I wont feel disturbed at all)

Thanks again for making few months of my life so beautiful and thanks for that drop I just found. I know you will read this.

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Apr 17, 2009

Congratulations Dr.Vandana

Its party time for me and my family as my sweet sister Dr.Vandana got her first JOB in WNS Gurgaon. Today was her first day at office.

Congratulations Didi :) may you get 1st increment asap ;)

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Jan 12, 2009

Weird People Weird Way Of Doing Business

From Jan 2004, I am thinking of the same thing again and again that mixing friendship in business is not good in North India. Why I am saying North India, has a solid reason. The reason is despite of being very good friends, people like Annanth, pay right on time without delay (He is from Mangalore) but 90% of clients from North India are delaying and delaying for smallest amount of Rs.500/-!!!!

I remember the way “Kel World” a long term client of mine, has shown his business ethics by paying on the same day of registration! But people here in my City and around are making fun of me by asking me to wait and keep on waiting. I have decided to stop advance order execution for clients and resellers both.

Why they do not understand that I do not own “Domain or Hosting Industry”. I also have to pay someone. Due to people like them I have been in big trouble in last year. A very good colleague is still waiting for some amount only because of people like those who think Rs.1000/- or Rs.500/- is a small amount and they do not care about paying on time.

These people want me to renew/register domains in advance! Who are they to expect things like that? I will prefer to loose 9 out of 10 clients rather than paying for such people from my pocket.

Anyway, this is what an angry guy can write. I am not pointing any client with which I had bad experience but named only those who are good in business. I do not want to make those people wait for payment who worked for me so it is important that I get payment on time.

In last year I know due to some personal issues, some of my clients also had to face delays in work but I have shown my apologies and completed their work and still working for them. I know I need money to live but those who buy domain and hosting from me do not think so.

Signing off and still angry…

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Dec 26, 2008

Public Declaration — I am not “Working Under” Any Boss

Those who are reading this post should know some points about me. The following things should be kept in mind before dealing with any person who is taking my name as his/her employee or saying that I am working under him/her or he/she is my boss.

1. I AM NOT EMPLOYEE TO ANYONE.

2. IF ANYONE IS SAYING THAT I AM WORKING FOR HIM/HER THAT ONLY MEANS I AM WORKING ON A PROJECT FOR HIM/HER. THAT DOES NOT MEAN THAT I AM HIS/HER EMPLOYEE. I AM WORKING AS PARTNER OF OZAKX TECHNOLOGIES WHICH IS A PARTNERSHIP FIRM. THERE ARE ONLY TWO PARTNERS IN THE FIRM i.e. ME, ANURAG BHATEJA AND MY MOTHER, MRS.MADHU KIRAN.

3. IF YOU ARE COMING FOR SOME WORK FROM A REFERRAL PLEASE MAKE SURE I HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH THE RELATIONS OF YOU AND THE REFERRAL. I AM ONLY DEALING WITH THE PERSON WHOSE WEBSITE IS UNDER MY SUPERVISION. I WILL NOT ACCEPT ANY INTERFERENCE IN CASE OF PAYMENTS FROM THE REFERRAL. “OZAKX TECHNOLOGIES” HAVE FULL RIGHT TO SUSPEND THE ACCOUNT EVEN IF A PART OF PAYMENT IS DUE.

Please concider this as a public declaration from Anurag Bhateja, owner of anuragbhateja.com and who is a partner in Ozakx Technologies which is a Chandigarh Based Web Services provider.

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