How to Propose! The 101 ways ;) Tip 1

OKAY! Now after giving love tips, I am going one step back on proposals. This section is for both boys and girls. Let me tell you first how this all started. I was having dinner in Hot Millions 2 in Sector 17 Chandigarh after attending an event. Three of my friends Noor Sandhu, Jasbir Boora and Poornika were with me. During chat, Jasbir told Poornika about love tips section in my blog. The discussion moved to giving tips on how to propose and then suddenly this idea came in my mind an I said,”Poornika! thanks yaar I should write on ‘propose karne ke 101 nuskhe’ (101 ways to propose)” and then chat ended with laughter.

Somehow this got stuck in my mind and this ended up with a new section on my blog named “How to propose! The 101 ways” :) What I am going to do is, I am going to write one way daily and will try to complete the section in 101 days from now.

Lets start with the first way. Proposing is not just about going and say “Okay, I love you and want to marry you. Let go”. You will get a slap for sure! Its about showing that you love and you care for her. Its about telling her that she can not find anyone better in this world than YOU which is a truth and you should have faith on yourself in this matter.

How to plan:
Very  important and critical part. You have to plan what and how are you going to do this. Just follow the things. Alter them a bit according to your needs and the place you live and try :). I am not going to include anything expensive in any tip and will make sure everything remains in budget. To plan things, first make a check list as follows:
1. Call her and tell her to meet you at some place where you can sit, chat and have some food. Make sure the place is not crowded.
2. Now buy one flower (yes only one. No need to buy bunch as it will be difficult for her to keep it and will end up throwing them in dustbin with heavy heart.)
3. Get one chocolate. I am sure if you love her you know her favorite brand.
4.  Now the trick is here. Write “I love you”/” or “I love you! Marry Me!” or “I love you! Please be my Life!” on a small piece of colored paper. Color of the paper should be of her favorite color.
5. Now slightly open the wrapper in such a way that you can either stick it back or it should not be visible when you give it to her. Put the piece of paper inside. Wrap it back.
6. With a small piece of cello tape tie the flower to the chocolate.
You are ready now :)

Now go to the place. Be a gentleman and show some gestures. Pull the chair for her (of course if places have chairs ;) ). Sit with her. Talk over some random topics for a while. Place he order but before the food arrives, get the chocolate and give it to her. Ask her to open it after lunch as this is today’s sweetdish for her :)

After lunch, let her open the chocolate and read the slip. As soon as she read it and look at you just say it without hesitating. You may not get the answer but sooner or later you will get. No matter its yes/no but you and she will not forget the moments that I am sure about :)

In future tips, I may get more into planning so be ready :)

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  • Dear… this is awesome, desperately waiting for more… (not to worry.. I’m not gonna propose any body)

  • Beautiful…!! wow, wat a tip! Anyone would fall for this…

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