Matrimonial — Where are they heading?
Written by Anurag Bhateja on June 8, 2009 – 11:23 am -I am 24, male, looking for my better half. Do I really need to book myself on Shaadi, Indian Matrimonial or need to give advertisement in newspaper and look for girls who are “Convent Educated” or should go to a TV show (talking about star vivah, recently started on Star TV)?
Let me clerify one thing first that I am not so desperate to get married that I am writing this on my blog. I just want to express my views on the system we are following to get married. After even 10 years of being social, I still do not understand the concept of arrange marriage. There is no single marriage in my knowledge which is fixed via website, tv show, matrimonial ads or something like that, is 100% success. Well clearly speaking, only 10% of the marriages which I have seen till date or you can say 10% of married couples, living happily.
Getting married is one of the most happy moments I can think of, in a girl’s or boy’s life. Getting married to a right person is a real time hard to find thing. Sometimes, when I feel bored on Sundays, I look into Matrimonial sections of newspapers for jokes! Confused? Yes, I look for Matrimonial for jokes. The ads there are nothing better than PJ’s. If you look at them you will find that the people who get married in this world are neither beautiful, nor from good family, nor highly educated, nor earning good because all such people find their partners from MATRIMONIAL. I do not understand of writing “Convent Educated” in the qualification. Does this make difference? Do they look like “Avtars”? The main thing in education is the institute and the backbone behind you. If the girl is so called “Convent Educated” and can not respect the family members, whats the use of such education then?
I think getting married to the right person is as important as breathing. Few things which are important as per my thoughts should be:
1. Nature.
2. Understanding.
3. Knowledge of needs and medical conditions.
4. Importance of being together.
5. Love between the partners.
6. Guts to say sorry. Yes, it should be there in both the partners.
Rest there can be a long list of do’s and dont’s which I do not think, I have write to say at this moment hehe. 
Look forward, think twice before going for such things. Beware of frauds and try to look for the best option for you. Life is not for spoiling with your own bare hands. ENJOY
Tags: Matrimonials, Newspaper ads, tv programs, Websites
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By Jitu on Jun 8, 2009 | Reply
Actually…
I am not for or against this kind of arrangement…
I have seen one successfull marriage that had sprouted from a online matrimonial alliance… and one very very unsuccessful one.
I think the crux of success or failure lies less on whether the alliance was arranged or not… and more on your approach towards your new allaince and your partner.
If both have the right approach… no matter how the alliance had happened… the marriage would be a success.
By Shanker Bakshi on Jun 13, 2009 | Reply
Ha Ha , its a really crazy idea to get married through a TV show, or through matrimonial site, lucky those who find love in between.
-Shanker Bakshi
By Raj on Jun 30, 2009 | Reply
Very true said dear.. Marriages are made in heaven but i do not agree with your view that i know many people who got married with the different different websites.
All the matrimonial sites like Shaadi,Bharatmatrimony,Jeevansaathi and Vevahik.com are providing the best matches to the people.
All matrimonial sites are serving the people.
Cheers!!!!
Raj
By geneve on Oct 14, 2009 | Reply
I think marriage life is really hard but if the 2 cooperates with everything then it will smooth sailing for both of them.
By Dum on Oct 16, 2009 | Reply
enjoy our life? of course….
By akira07 on Oct 17, 2009 | Reply
The key is love me the way i am
That’s why i’m always take a love problem as serious things.
Yes, nature one is better even maybe there is a people disagree.