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Satisfied With What I Am But Still Want To Be Someone?

Written by Anurag Bhateja on June 23, 2009 – 2:23 pm -

First of let me tell you this is not what I think. I was in CCD yesterday waiting for Naveen Choudhary (a friend from Dainik bhaskar and a budding photographer) so that we can have a chat over his upcoming blog. Somehow, due to huge traffic problem in evenings near Sector 35 Chandigarh, he got late by 20 minutes. Meanwhile I was waiting for him, I noticed some words uttered very loudly from a near by table. “Every human have such emotions, no matter you believe me or not but every Homosapiens have such emotions. Girls have more but boys do have. Don’t you believe? No no give me example why don’t you believe and blah blah blah”. I was like what is the problem with this girl? Anyway, I had time to listen to what she is saying so I diverted my whole concentration towards the issue they were discussing on. (Bad part of me but it really gave me  chance to study a kind of “Not So Natural” behavior).

One line which really disturbed me is “I am satisfied with what I am, but still I want to be someone”. She presented this line so confidently like if she has no issues in life and want to continue just to show she can do more. But as per my knowledge says, she lacks in self confidence and need to work a lot on her attitude.

The main reason of writing this article is to mak a point on the amount of attitude you bear in yourself. Attitude is very important in life. If a person needs to get out of being insulted, being suppressed or something like that, s/he has to increase the amount of attitude in his/her life and should become a bit proud of what s/he is. Till this point the thing is absolutely alright and there is no problem in showing some attitude in such condition. But what instead of giving you a way to walk, the attitude starts killing your self esteem? Yes, my friend, it can do so.

In the case I mentioned above, the girl must have faced very critical things in life. May be in personal or in academic life. I don’t think she is over 20 years of age but the way she was presenting herself (not talking in dressing sense) in such a way that she is someone which you can not avoid. Unfortunately her first impression made me think not to see her again in my life. Too much of attitude, not listening to what the people in front of you and trying to prove that you are satisfied with everything in life even with the sexual part, in public, which is not at all acceptable when you are meeting someone at first time. When she mentioned, “I am satisfied even with my sex life”, all of the people present around her went in to silence. At that time I wished I can go and tell her to please stop abusing herself in front of so many people.It is not the thing that I am against the word sex and its importance in life but the thing is, there is time for everything.

Now what should you take care while being in a group for the first few times? Read carefully:

1. Don’t show you are something very important in the life of the person with whom you came.
2. Don’t show that you have done enough in your life and are living just for the sake of enjoying the bucks you have in your pocket. This will prove you a fool for sure.
3. Never offer to pay until you are the only at least equal earning hand in the group. Seems suspicious? Think of it. You are in that group for the first time and you pay for all the things you bought in the cafe or whatsoever. To people, who came just for the sake of not spending anything will love it but those who are sensible enough will either go for contribution or will try to pay themselves. You deed of offering to pay can result in downfall of your reputation in their eyes. Make sure if you earn, you pay your contribution yourself. Do not let your friend who took you there to pay for you. If you are a girl and you hesitate to offer your share in front of others, pay after the get together is over to your friend. I have seen girls avoiding to pay even when they earn. This may not harm your relationship with your friends in short time but in long term relations with friends, in some cases people start avoiding you.
4. Never show too much of attitude. Always remember that “The tree bends only when it has fruit on it”. If you have you qualities and think you are a good person, always be decent. Listen to people sitting in front of you. Understand their point and never try to over do your thoughts over them.
5. Do not eat too fast. Max of us unknowingly do this. No matter how good you are, no matter how blessed you are with qualities. Being a monster while eating will prove you a monster and nothing else. “Shrek is not there in real life”.
6. Never use so much scientific language in front of others if you feel they may not know about what you are talking about. Homosepians, though is a well known word but still we do not use this on regular basis please!

These are just few points which can bring the inner good human being out. Try working on your attitude and control it in limits before its too late. Be good, get good reviews from others and never show the “F” hidden inside you to the people yu are meeting for the first time.

Enjoy life and enjoy your “Attitude In Limits”. Take care.

Tags: first impression, improve yourself, speaking motivational, Too much of anything is bad, Understand things about attitude
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