How to Propose! The 101 ways ;) Tip 1

Written by Anurag Bhateja on May 3, 2010 – 11:56 am -

OKAY! Now after giving love tips, I am going one step back on proposals. This section is for both boys and girls. Let me tell you first how this all started. I was having dinner in Hot Millions 2 in Sector 17 Chandigarh after attending an event. Three of my friends Noor Sandhu, Jasbir Boora and Poornika were with me. During chat, Jasbir told Poornika about love tips section in my blog. The discussion moved to giving tips on how to propose and then suddenly this idea came in my mind an I said,”Poornika! thanks yaar I should write on ‘propose karne ke 101 nuskhe’ (101 ways to propose)” and then chat ended with laughter.

Somehow this got stuck in my mind and this ended up with a new section on my blog named “How to propose! The 101 ways” :) What I am going to do is, I am going to write one way daily and will try to complete the section in 101 days from now.

Lets start with the first way. Proposing is not just about going and say “Okay, I love you and want to marry you. Let go”. You will get a slap for sure! Its about showing that you love and you care for her. Its about telling her that she can not find anyone better in this world than YOU which is a truth and you should have faith on yourself in this matter.

How to plan:
Very  important and critical part. You have to plan what and how are you going to do this. Just follow the things. Alter them a bit according to your needs and the place you live and try :). I am not going to include anything expensive in any tip and will make sure everything remains in budget. To plan things, first make a check list as follows:
1. Call her and tell her to meet you at some place where you can sit, chat and have some food. Make sure the place is not crowded.
2. Now buy one flower (yes only one. No need to buy bunch as it will be difficult for her to keep it and will end up throwing them in dustbin with heavy heart.)
3. Get one chocolate. I am sure if you love her you know her favorite brand.
4.  Now the trick is here. Write “I love you”/” or “I love you! Marry Me!” or “I love you! Please be my Life!” on a small piece of colored paper. Color of the paper should be of her favorite color.
5. Now slightly open the wrapper in such a way that you can either stick it back or it should not be visible when you give it to her. Put the piece of paper inside. Wrap it back.
6. With a small piece of cello tape tie the flower to the chocolate.
You are ready now :)

Now go to the place. Be a gentleman and show some gestures. Pull the chair for her (of course if places have chairs ;) ). Sit with her. Talk over some random topics for a while. Place he order but before the food arrives, get the chocolate and give it to her. Ask her to open it after lunch as this is today’s sweetdish for her :)

After lunch, let her open the chocolate and read the slip. As soon as she read it and look at you just say it without hesitating. You may not get the answer but sooner or later you will get. No matter its yes/no but you and she will not forget the moments that I am sure about :)

In future tips, I may get more into planning so be ready :)




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Is It Really Hard To See Someone Learning?

Written by Anurag Bhateja on October 12, 2009 – 7:45 am -

I know this is quite controversial thing to comment on nature of anyone out there so I am not going to take the names of people whom I want to do critic on ;). I am following the theory of play safe here :D. What happened is, I was coming back from Panchkula to Chandigarh with Naveen and we chatted on some issues which we were watching from last many months.

First let me tell you something about Naveen. Naveen Choudhary, a very intelligent human being who can get logic out of anything. I, sometimes feel that I am lucky to have friends like him around who can not only say good about you on your face but can also critic you when it is needed.

Okay, lets get back to point. We were discussing on the nature of people which change a lot with time. The talk started with Gurdaas Maan Night which is going to take place in Chandigarh soon went to Shekhar Suman and some other actors of the industry. Till then the outcome came to be something very depressive that old gems like Gurdaas Maan are very down to earth and simple but the new generation of actors is arrogant and bit irritating.

Somehow the talk was turned to photographers (Well this is common between me and Naveen so its obvious). We discussed over the unwanted attitude of photographers of in, around the city and from different parts of the country. As all say, there are black sheep in every field but I think photography is a field, where there are more of them. I remember once I was told that in old times if you go to a photographer and want to learn, then you have to be his/her “mundu” or you can say slave for the time till s/he lets you touch his/her camera. Time has changed now after the revolution of digital photography but the attitude of these photographers remains the same. They do not want you to learn but will make you stand there watching them like dummies for long and long and long.They will neither allow you to spend time on your equipment, nor encourage you to go for contests.

Naveen told me about two very famous photographers of India and explained the difference between their nature. He told that one of his colleagues got a chance to spend time and do assignments with both the photographers and found that both are equally good in photography but the difference between their nature is tremendous. The first photographer was arrogant. Why I am saying that? Actually what happened was, one day they went to shoot the assignment where the junior photographer saw a very good composition and immediately got his camera out to click but that “Amazing photographer” stopped him in a way that the composition is not good at all. After few moments he was clicking the same composition found by the junior.

On the other hand, the junior photographer got a chance to meet one other photographer and do assignment with him. On the way, they found one baby donkey in a amazing composition and the senior photographer started clicking it. Keeping the last incident in mind, the junior didn’t get the camera out and when the senior photographer turned, he scolded him and said “Ab khinch le! Bhagne ki wait kar raha hai kya? dubara nai milega yeh saari zindagi fir baith ke royega” which means “Click it now or you are waiting him to run? This composition will not be there in future and whole life you will cry for not clicking it”.

Now see the difference between the first and the second one. This is what I am talking about. No doubt due to digital revolution, the photographers are not paid as they were for their work but I do not understand why don’t they think of the phrase “Every photograph is sell-able no matter it goes for $1 or $100″.

I feel it is better to spend some money and go to a good institute to learn. At least they tell you how to use the equipment and let you try it out. I spend a lot of time juggling here and there to learn. Checked Internet. Got information from friends, but when I did the self assignment and joined CFC, the real me came out which can be seen in my photostream on flickr.

I know I am not that good enough to say that I am a professionally sound photographer but I know I am on the right path of becoming at least a good enough photographer. It will take time and too much of learning but I feel its easy to learn yourself then to go somewhere and learn. Sometimes the person in front of you showoff a lot but from inside s/he is nothing but a piece of junk who can not help you in going ahead. Even in our group there are people who said a lot about their stuff and work but they just vanished with time as the real colors come in front of other members. After coming for 1-2 meetings they are now nowhere! Friends like Vijay Singh Bainsla, Ravi, Sandeep, Kshitiz, Nachiketa are good in their clicks and the best part is they share the information with free mind. How can anyone in the group forget that Vijay, despite of being so busy, spent time with us teaching the very basic of photography like the combination of shutter speed and aperture. Ravi who not only shared his hidden collections with us but also shared the information on how to shoot in lack of equipment. Sandeep who has good hand on portraits never say I can teach but make you teach out of nowhere and Kshitiz whose compositions are always encouraging one and Nachiketa who is a master of bird and animal spotting.

On the other hand Members like Varun, Mohd. Safdar, Naveen, Ashwani, Anurag, Cheena, Deenu, Gautam, Nipun are always there to help and learn in every situation. No matter its about photography or not they will come forward and show that they are in your life. I admire the commitment of all of them towards photography and love the way the behave when we are together. Though none of us claim that we are professional photographers and can click better than others but we all have our own forte. If anyone find anything while clicking in group, we do not feel like not telling to others. Sometimes, we say it so loudly that the subject runs away :P excitement!! hehe.

Life is good with these friends and learning is better with them. We all look on Internet, play with camera, share information on tutorials, share links, kick each other for parties and play with photographs but we all know how important is “give respect and take respect”. No matter Anurag Malhotra is elder to me, he will come and ask me to teach. No matter Cheena is younger to me, if I find the composition good I will ask him how he clicked.

Is this attitude missing in those “so called” professional photographers or God gives only one thing to them i.e. either skill to click or being down to earth? Why can’t they remember that only a tree with fruits will bend. When I search for the answer I find “Who the hell am I to think?” Leave them alone with their small hallucination of being “the best” and enjoy clicking with your friends and mentors. Learning and teaching is part of this field and only s/he can flourish who can respect the feelings of other person. If you kick someone in front of others, s/he will kick back for sure one day or the other.

Go ahead, click but please be down to earth. Happy clicking.




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Photoshop – Difference in Canvas Size and Image Size

Written by Anurag Bhateja on September 25, 2009 – 3:04 pm -

While using photoshop, you often use image size tool which can be found under menu “Image” >> “Image Size” or by pressing ctrl+alt+i on keyboard. Image size basically has handful of options which will make you decide for what purpose you are going to use the particular image for. The following screenshot is of the option.

image-size

If you check it carefully, you will find the following options. I am describing in short, what they do and what they can be used for.
1. Pixel Dimension: The options can be calculated in Pixels and Percent.
a. Width: This will decide the width of the image.
b. Height: This will decide the height of the image.
2. Document Size: The options can be calculated in percent, inches, cm, mm, points and picas. e.g. If you need an image which can get fit into A4 size of paper then you need to check document size.
a. Width: This is the width of the document.
b. Height: This is the height of the document.
c. Resolution: This is calculated in pixel/inch or pixel/cm that means option 1 / option 2. For web, 72 dpi (dots per inch) are used, for print normally the value goes equal to/above 180 dpi.
3. If you see a square bracket with a symbol of chain on the right side of height and width, that means the option of constrain proportion is on.

These three options are used by almost every photographer, web designer or any techie who needs to work on his/her images.

Another option i.e. of canvas size, can be found in “Image” >>”Canvas Size” or by pressing ctrl+alt+c on keyboard. Canvas size is basically used for increasing or decreasing the height/width of the open file, without interrupting the size of the image in it. e.g. is I need to add a border around my photograph, I will just change the main layer which is locked and named as background to a layer by double clicking on it. Then I will click on new layer button or by pressing ctrl+shift+n on keyboard. No by keeping the new layer below the layer 0, I will increase height nd width in canvas size option by desired number say 100 px. Now I will fill it with the color or color gradient which I want in background. If you check my photostream in flickr, you will find border around my newly uploaded photos. The border is created with the help of canvas size option.

Now have a look on the following screenshot.

canvas-size

The following options are used as follows:
1. Width: This is the width of the canvas. If you increase this, you will find blank space on both the vertical sides.
2. Height: This is the height of the canvas. If you increase this, you will find blank space on both the horizontal sides.
3. Anchors: These are click-able arrows, which can decide which side is going to be affected. If you press the upper button, the image on the canvas will go up and the bottom of the canvas will get increased by the number you have entered say 100 px. The same will take effect with other anchor buttons. If the middle button is active both horizontal/vertical sides will get affected.

Hope this will help you in differentiating the options. Soon I will post a small tutorial on adding different kind of borders around the image using canvas size option. :)

Take care :)




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