I hate you because I love you

Written by Anurag Bhateja on May 12, 2009 – 6:03 am -

From last 3-4 days I am not able to post anything on love tips due to some work load. Sorry for missing out somedays.

I wrote a poem just a few minutes back and thought of sharing it here. :)

I hate you for being so naughty
I hate you for being so loveable
I hate you for being so sweet
I hate you for being my dreamgirl
I hate you for answering me always
I hate you for being with me
I hate you for supporting me so much
I hate you because I CAN NOT LIVE WITHOUT YOU
I hate you because I CAN NOT SEE ANYTHING BUT YOU
I hate you because you are so far
I hate you because I am in love with you
I love you…
Yours only




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Daily Love tips – 07 May 2009

Written by Anurag Bhateja on May 7, 2009 – 7:40 am -

Have you ever told your lover that you love the way s/he cares about you and you feel good when s/he is around? Think over the fact that, no matter how much time you have spent in your relationship, how many times you made him/her realize that s/he matters to you a lot. A lot more than s/he can ever imagine.

Today’s tip:

Make him/realize s/he means a lot. Now it is very difficult to make him/her feel the same you want to convey by just saying this. This should be planned and told with proper emotions and feelings. I think there can not be a single way which can be followed by both boy and girl to convey this message as there is huge difference between the way both genders think.

It will be better to give a tip to both separately. So here we go with a simple tip for girls first. Love has no boundaries and there is no limits to express it. Though sometimes it gets hard to tell him what you are thinking. After a period in a relationship the things start getting down and down and it is very important that you keep on boosting the love between you and your partner by telling him how much you love him and how much you love the way he cares about you. It is not important that this should be conveyed on some specific day or time. Think over it in this way. You both are watching a movie. Get his arm around you, rest your head on his shoulder and in between the movie once tell him “Thank you for being with me and taking so much care of me”. Try walking with him with hand in hand. Get closer and tell you love him and can not imagine your life without him. You can also try different ways like by making some dish for him or helping him out in his work. Its all upto you how you manage the situation and convey your feelings.

Boys, it way more harder for you guys. I really mean way harder. Making men feel good is very easy and we are just a kiss or hug away from understanding but girls are not. You have to be way more loving, caring and expressive. You have to tell her “Thank you for being in my life” a lot more times and in different ways. As much as you can do. You can even buy a single rose daily with a note of “Thank you for being in my life. I love you a lot”, you can buy some gifts on intervals, you can kiss her forehead in morning and just whisper “thank you sweetie” in her ears, you can leave chits in her purse or can even write it on a wall in your home ;).

This tip can be used by both. Choose a wall in your home and make it wall of love. Write something whenever you feel like on it. Paste pictures there. Add special notes, leave lip marks o whatever you feel like. Keep the wall like that always but hidden from outer world. :)

Enjoy being in his/her arms and feel the passion more and more daily.

:)




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Daily Love Tips – 04 May 2009

Written by Anurag Bhateja on May 4, 2009 – 5:14 am -

Its a new day and its time to greet your lover with some more passion and emotion with a touch of sweetness. No matter how old you grow, no matter how much time you have spent in your relationship and no matter how health conscious you are. Candies are always in demand in your relationship. Hold on please. I am not asking to buy and eat candies together.

Its time to tell your beloved that s/he is the candy of your life. With him/her your life would have been out of the sugar stock. Tell him/her that from the very first day s/he came to your life, everyday is a new beginning for you. It is very important to keep on telling your partner that s/he means something in your life or better to tell means everything in life and without him/her you just do not exist.

It is not important to tell this by greeting him/her with some expensive gift or by buying candies for him/her. There are many other ways to tell that :D. So with a ;) let me give you some stupid yet worth trying ideas :)

1. Now this one is hard for those who do not cook but still it will work THE BEST if you can manage. Bake a cake or bring a cake without icing. If you know how to prepare icing sugar thats the best thing otherwise you can bring that along too. Make sure the flavor of the cream suits his/her taste. Write “To Candy Of My Life” or something like “To the one who made my life sweet” or anything which shows some sort of romantic feeling. Now where should this cake go? Please make sure your lover is not aware of this cake. Put it in Fridge or somewhere where s/he will check it for sure on the same day. Let him/her find it :).
2. If you really, I mean REALLY want to get naught enough to handle you can do it in this way. Get chocolate sauce (make sure he/she likes chocolate). Write “Me for candy of my life” on to your body (now this depends how naughty you want to become). And just go in front of him/her and rest will be taken care of for sure. ;)
3. Another way is to telling her in techno style. But make sure you do not make fool of your self. What you can do is that you can send an SMS that you want to tell him/her something very important and whenever s/he is free please call. When you receive the call just give a kiss over the phone and thank him/her for being in your life and being so sweet just like a candy.
4. What else you can try is you can really go and buy some candies and play with them. Open their wrappers and you can make alphabets with those candies. Write “Thank You Candy” with them in a tray and serve him/her after dinner.

These are just ideas to greet her with something sweet or naughty or sensual. It is all upto your nature and nature of your relationship that how you are going to handle these things. In some couples a bit of unknown differences of thoughts are there and main motive of them should be to remove those obstacles on relationship and make the relationship more healthy and long lasting. You can not just do this by just living the life together but you have to show your love and affection each and every day, each and every moment.

So love your “life” and be with him/her with a difference. Do not be just the couple next door. :)




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